Domicile of choice, why are you still there, it is because of your status, pride, children, love, or economic reasons?

Do you care enough to think beyond the obvious regarding the feelings of a friend, family member who suffered abuse, intimate partner violence and humiliation from his/her partner? You might not live to tell the story or the ordeal whatsoever, maybe your friends who cared less or ignorant family member will. What does not grow you destroys you if a fruit stays on the tree for too long after its ripened, it will rot and wither, so change whatever you’re doing if it does not grow you or serve your pre-destined purpose, do it now before is too late. There was a time and place for that, but when it’s time to let go, we need to do so, while we still have our dignity intact, or else its just a down-hill from there, guaranteed. Start a new chapter in your life, the time is now, and do not waste any more time. May we learn to fall in love with “goodbye” and letting go, excruciating though it may sometimes be. May you release all and any regret, shame and guilt from your past you were who you were back then and that’s paved the path to the man and woman you are today and the one you are continuously becoming. This is also the way to prepare your soul for the next vital stage in its journey of enrichment and maturation. Don’t allow your past to tear your future apart. You can move forward from where you are now, not from where you once were. Some became victims because of procrastination, some became dead bodies, because of ignorant and while some became sick because they cared less of themselves. The thrill has worn off and you may find that being at the particular environment, doing certain things no longer fits you comfortably or is causing chaos in other areas of your life. That’s a clear sign that the chapter is finished. Seasons change, so do you. Don’t try to fit size 32 while you’re wearing size 36, stop behaving like singleton while you’re married, respect your partner even if she/he does not see you, so please, that will not only leave you hurting and empty, but spiritually dead inside…hope you get the massage.@makalelasamson